The whole notion that, “you don’t realize someone’s worth until you’ve lost them,” is simply dumb. Excuse my brute honesty. But sometimes brute honesty is required in order to open people’s eyes. This popular mindset is famous amongst men. Usually when he has lost his wife, girlfriend or what have you — then he wants to have an epiphany, realize her worth and try to snag her back.
That urks my nerves. See, ladies, the issue isn’t that it requires him to lose you in order for him to realize how valuable you are.
The real issue is that he’s too dumb to know how to handle someone like you who carries so much worth.
Yes, fellas, I said it. Dumb. And if you’re offended, don’t get mad at me. That’s conviction telling you to get your act together.
I’ve seen this cycle way too many times. A woman gets thrown into emotional turmoil as her man mishandles her and treats her as if she’s undervalued. He deals with her as if she’s worthless until she’s ready to leave him (or has already left him). All of a sudden, her value to him goes way through the roof.
There’s your sign right there ladies. He didn’t just suddenly realize your worth. He knew it all along. His stupidity just barred him from knowing how to treat you well!
Fellas, this is no excuse.
It’s time to stop being dumb. Don’t wait til’ you’ve lost your wife to try and become prince charming. It doesn’t take losing her to realize how much she’s worth. You know her worth. It’s time to start treating her like a gentleman would, while she’s still yours. Please, whatever you do — don’t let stupidity cause you to lose the best thing that’s happened to you.
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