I don’t care what anyone has told you. Looks DO matter. Yeah, I know you’ve heard the old cliché saying:
“It doesn’t matter what’s on the outside. All that matters is what’s on the inside.”
I disagree. The saying should go:
“The outside definitely matters. But the inside matters much more.”
I would have to question the honesty of anyone who says looks don’t matter. Think about the significance of looks. Many times a man is first attracted to a woman because of her looks (and vice versa). Her looks draws him and her personality keeps him. That’s why I said the outside matters but the inside matters more.
Look at your own relationship. Didn’t looks play a huge role in attracting you to your spouse? Fellas, on wedding day, you looked at your wife-to-be and thought, wow she’s beautiful, and ladies you saw your soon-to-be husband thought, woah, he’s so handsome.
Looks are important. Very important. That’s why it’s essential to keep up with your appearance even after you’re married! When you were dating, you probably wouldn’t be caught dead not looking your best — especially on date nights. Why would that change now? Ladies and gentlemen, don’t let yourselves go!
Fellas, if she desires you to have a nice physique, then hit the gym! Shoot, I’m definitely in the gym 5 days a week. I’m not about to have my wife look at me and think I’m not physically attractive anymore. Ladies, same for you. Don’t just walk around looking any ol’ kind of way. You know what he finds physically attractive about you. Keep that physical attractiveness there for him.
Looks DO matter. Obviously what’s on the inside (personality, mentality, heart, etc) are far more important. Obviously looks alone is nowhere near enough to sustain a relationship. But please don’t downplay or reduce the significance of good looks. Your spouse deserves for your inner being and outer being to look good!
What do you think? Do looks matter?
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