Does the title of this post sound oddly familiar to you? It probably does. Every caring father poses a similar question to the man who wants to be in a relationship with his daughter. “What are your intentions with my daughter?” Even mom’s ask this question! Why? Because they want to know what type of man their daughter is going to be with. They want to ensure that this man has her best interest at heart.
The intent of this question is to look for any red flags. Parents are usually good at knowing what type of guy her daughter is dating within 15 minutes of shaking his hand. Often times, the daughter is falling so quickly “in love” that she automatically believes his intentions are pure. In reality, that’s not always the case.
sometimes we’ve got to examine ourselves. We’ve got to examine ourselves all the time. What are our real intentions towards our wives? Let’s be honest for a second. Because most of us will pump ourselves up and say that we have the best intentions in the world for her. But our actions say otherwise. Let’s be straight up. If our actions display habitual disrespect, unkindness, bitterness, anger, arrogance or spitefulness then our intentions to our wives are WAY off! And guess what? That’s not right. Nor is it fair. When you looked her in the eyes at the altar on wedding day (God as a witness), you promised to treat her well, no matter what.
Have you been lying this whole time? Fellas, what are your real intentions for your wife? If you think you have good intentions, but your actions show otherwise, then today is the day to make a change in your marriage. Your wife deserves your best.
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