The Danger of Hurting Your Wife

sad-505857_1280We’ve all heard that famous saying countless times. You know — “hurt people, hurt people.” Man, I’ve got to tell you: that statement is real. Fellas — treating your wife like trash is one of the worst things you could do in marriage. That’s pretty much common sense. Why in the world would you trash and hurt the very woman who loves you, adores you, trusts you and tries to find security in you? There’s really no valid reason.

If your love is unconditional (which it should be) then you should be treating her well in the good times and bad times.

Fellas, do you know why it’s dangerous to hurt your wife?

Because eventually, you’ll wind up getting hurt too.

Go ahead. I’ll give you a moment to puff yourself up while you think to yourself, Pssshh! Yeah right. I’m a man. She can’t hurt me.

Did you enjoy your moment? I hope so — because now it’s time to deflate your puffed up mindset.

Don’t take it lightly gentlemen. If you damage your wife and refuse to fix it right away, she’ll surely damage you — whether it’s intentional or unintentional. How? Easy. Once you’ve hurt your wife and that hurt goes a long time without being healed, she will then start to become bitter. When she’s bitter, she won’t want to; nor will she do anything for you anymore (whether that’s cooking, cleaning, being sexually intimate, talking to you, lavishing you with her love — whatever she does that you enjoyed or once appreciated).

Believe me: once she stops performing as a wife and starts treating you like an enemy — it will hurt. Whether you want to admit it or not. Is this righteous of her? Of course not. But it wasn’t righteous of you to treat her like trash either; and once you’ve treated her bad for so long — her negative reactions towards you will soon be inevitable.

Fellas, I urge you to watch how you treat your wife. Hurting her will eventually hurt you. She deserves your best, because you promised your best at the altar. Don’t let your promise become broken. Be a real husband and love your wife whole-heartedly.

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Micheal Boyd

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Micheal is the owner and writer of Agape Her, where he publishes articles on marriage advice. His passion for marriage and writing inspires him to encourage husbands to love their wives unconditionally -- as God intended. Be sure to check out his awesome books! You can contact Micheal at: micheal@agapeher.com
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Micheal Boyd

Micheal is the owner and writer of Agape Her, where he publishes articles on marriage advice. His passion for marriage and writing inspires him to encourage husbands to love their wives unconditionally -- as God intended. Be sure to check out his awesome books! You can contact Micheal at: micheal@agapeher.com

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  1. Yes, “Unconditional Selfless Love”. Do you find that in many women these days? So here is me. I am 38. Always loved them! Always showed respect. Was never enough for them. I am still single. I did an analysis of the reasons they left and it all boils down to selfishness on their part. I could not even get to marriage. Hurt them? Well, let’s see. I loved her. I met her when I was 23. I returned to her country 5 times after I met her, and it was still not good enough. Nothing ever is. Who got hurt? Love is a choice, but in real cases, not a choice because you do not get to choose in a sense to let go of that real one. You cannot make the choice. She sticks! Nothing you can do about it. So here goes. Who is a person to reject real love when it arrives? Do we have the right to reject it? Let me guess, yes, if it doesn’t suit “what you want” right? Isn’t that just selfish? I’m not asking for advise. I am just making a statement. I have generally found the majority of women to be selfish. I made a big mistake that I think any man will make. Do not run after a woman FOR love. There are a few reasons for this. Namely, the general woman DOES NOT WANT LOVE. She wants power and attention. It is all about…… there you go…. SELFISHNESS……. and the she wants …… there you go……. CONTROL! This is the opposite to “Unconditional Selfless Love”….. it has the appearance of “Love”, but it is actually “SELFISH CONDITIONAL” acceptance of love. This is not a gender specific application of judgment here. It applies to men too. In my experience, women are generally players and so are men. It is not about LOVE. It is about selfishness.

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