We’ve all heard that famous saying countless times. You know — “hurt people, hurt people.” Man, I’ve got to tell you: that statement is real. Fellas — treating your wife like trash is one of the worst things you could do in marriage. That’s pretty much common sense. Why in the world would you trash and hurt the very woman who loves you, adores you, trusts you and tries to find security in you? There’s really no valid reason.
If your love is unconditional (which it should be) then you should be treating her well in the good times and bad times.
Fellas, do you know why it’s dangerous to hurt your wife?
Because eventually, you’ll wind up getting hurt too.
Go ahead. I’ll give you a moment to puff yourself up while you think to yourself, Pssshh! Yeah right. I’m a man. She can’t hurt me.
Did you enjoy your moment? I hope so — because now it’s time to deflate your puffed up mindset.
Don’t take it lightly gentlemen. If you damage your wife and refuse to fix it right away, she’ll surely damage you — whether it’s intentional or unintentional. How? Easy. Once you’ve hurt your wife and that hurt goes a long time without being healed, she will then start to become bitter. When she’s bitter, she won’t want to; nor will she do anything for you anymore (whether that’s cooking, cleaning, being sexually intimate, talking to you, lavishing you with her love — whatever she does that you enjoyed or once appreciated).
Believe me: once she stops performing as a wife and starts treating you like an enemy — it will hurt. Whether you want to admit it or not. Is this righteous of her? Of course not. But it wasn’t righteous of you to treat her like trash either; and once you’ve treated her bad for so long — her negative reactions towards you will soon be inevitable.
Fellas, I urge you to watch how you treat your wife. Hurting her will eventually hurt you. She deserves your best, because you promised your best at the altar. Don’t let your promise become broken. Be a real husband and love your wife whole-heartedly.
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