Remember the days when men would open the car doors for their lady? Pulling chairs out, holding building doors open, showing up to her job with flowers, leaving love notes and just being a genuine gentleman used to be normal. It was also a standard that most women required. Today, we don’t see that happening as much. Women open car doors for themselves now, pull their own chairs out and ironically (and shamefully) I see more women holding doors open for men than I do vice versa. I definitely think that every woman deserves a gentleman, to say the least. Every man reading this, including myself, has probably been a gentleman at one point in his life — but something happened. We got comfortable. Allowing ourselves to get comfortable, caused the gentleman in us to die. But the amazing woman in each of our lives is more than worthy to have the gentleman in us resurrected. Here’s 4 reasons why:
1. It makes her feel special.
When you treat your woman as a true gentleman would, she feels like a queen – and that’s precisely how she should feel on a daily basis. Think about it like this: when you go to a general restaurant, say, Denny’s or Applebee’s, the service you receive probably isn’t terrible — but it doesn’t make you feel special. But if you go to a fine dining restaurant, the experience is totally different. The servers wait on you hand and foot. They ensure that your drink glass is always full and they consistently make sure that all of your needs are being handled. Furthermore, the ambiance is amazing and the whole experience is something you won’t soon forget. That’s how your wife should feel on a regular basis; like she’s being treated as if she’s at a fine dining restaurant — not Denny’s.
2. She deserves it.
As I’ve already mentioned throughout this post, she simply deserves to be treated like a gentleman would treat her. She’s a lady and that’s how ladies are supposed to be treated. When you think about how amazing, beautiful and inspiring she is — you won’t have a hard time realizing why the gentleman in you needs to be resurrected.
3. It increases the value she see’s in you.
When you treat her like a gentleman, she looks at you in a positive light. She’ll be more drawn to you and appreciate you like never before. She’ll feel like she’s the most blessed woman in the world because she has a man like you. That’s exactly how you want her to perceive you! What man wouldn’t?
4. It shows gives your children a positive model.
Those of us who have children, probably know and realize that our kids watch us. Being a gentleman to your wife, will show your son(s) how he needs to treat his future wife. It will also show your daughter(s) what type of man to attract and accept in her life. Being a gentleman isn’t only vital to your marriage, but it’s vital to the future of your children’s marriage as well.
Give your wife what she deserves and show your children how a real man is supposed to conduct himself. Begin to open those doors for her again, pull those chairs out, bring her flowers and make her feel special. Resurrect the gentleman in you today.
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